Aug 9, 2017

To Spank or Not to Spank?

Please, please, please, remember that discipline is never about venting your anger or irritation. Neither is it merely punishment for wrongdoing. It is about winning the heart of your child. Consequences are the means to this end, not the end themselves. “We change our behavior when the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of changing.  Consequences give us the pain that motivates us to change.” –Henry Cloud  This is the reason we give consequences. As a motivation for change. Whatever consequence you use – restraint, removal of privileges, work, spanking – your aim should be the…