Photo: instagram.com/wethebams For twenty odd years you’ve been telling your kids what to do and how to do it. Now they are grown and sometimes do dumb things. You’d love to say, “I told you so,” but is that the right thing to do? Young adulthood is a difficult period for parent and child. As the parent, you want your child to be independent and make their own way in life, but when they ignore your advice and make mistakes it’s hard to keep your mouth shut. What do you do when your grown kids…