A young woman and I were chatting about guys and relationships recently. All her friends are in relationships or getting married and she’s feeling the pressure. She’s longing to find someone and get married. She’s been seeing a guy for a few months but has a couple of red flags about the relationship. Here’s one of the red flags: this guy keeps talking about how she needs to lose weight and how that one of the reasons men have affairs is because their wives are overweight. He is overlooking so much good in her – maturity, spirituality…