May 15, 2019

Why You Shouldn’t Thank Your Kids When They Obey You and What to Do Instead

Should you thank your kids when they obey you? “Come here to Mommy. Thank you.” “Put your toys away. Thank you.” “Don’t touch that. Thank you.” Why do you thank people? Usually when they have done you a favour or done something nice for you, right? Is obedience a favour or a duty? What does the Bible say? “Children, obey your parents in the Lord.” Ephesians 6:1 That sounds like a command to me, not an option or a favour. Related: How to get your kids to obey in 3 easy steps Obedience is a child’s duty…