Have you ever had someone tell you their “deep and darks” when you hardly know them? Maybe you’ve come away from a conversation with someone you don’t know very well and felt that you’ve overshared. How much should you share with someone at the beginning of a relationship? Should you spill your guts so they know what they’re getting into? Why shouldn’t you tell too much too soon? Telling your deep and darks requires a relationship that is reasonably solid. It must be able to bear the emotional weight of sharing deep things. This strength…