Note: This post contains affiliate links. The media has led women to believe that if we don’t function sexually like a man then there’s something wrong with us. Movies portray women as always eager for sex and instantly aroused, and because we don’t experience sexuality that way, we may assume that we are just not attracted to our husbands or there is something wrong with us. Wrong! Women (and their husbands) need to learn how their sexuality works. Note: I’m assuming that you are not in an abusive relationship or that one of you…
Do you want to reignite the passion in your marriage? Is it really necessary to maintain the spark? Definitely! Just because you’ve been married for 10, 15, 25, 35 years, doesn’t mean you can’t have chemistry in your relationship. In fact, the state of your sexual intimacy indicates the state of your relationship. Sex is the canary in the coal mine. Let me explain. Miners used to place a canary in a cage inside the mine to alert them of the presence of deadly gases. If the canary fell over dead, the miners knew to get out…
Have you lost the intimacy in your marriage and want to bring it back? Do you take each other for granted and long for the closeness you once had? Do you have a level of intimacy but long for more? Can you regain intimacy in marriage once you’ve lost it? Absolutely! What is intimacy? According to google it is close familiarity or friendship. Something personal or private. Marriage was meant to be a place of knowing and being known – like no other knows or is known. A place of friendship and close familiarity. Achieving intimacy…
I recently received an email from a man with this question: “My wife complains that during sexual intimacy I don’t speak words that boost her desire much. I just repeat the usual words, “I love you”. It’s like I have a limited vocabulary. How can I include more variety in what I say to my wife and boost her desire?” Great question! Let’s dive in and figure this out. First, let me say that a woman’s sexual response is a little more complicated than a man’s. It’s not a switch…